I haven't posted in a while because we haven't done stuff in a while. B got a stomach bug that took over our lives for a week.

He's been better for a a while now. Yesterday, we went downtown to visit the Art Museum. When we got there, we had a pee emergency so we decided to run into the library instead (it's next door). Finding that the regular bathroom was being cleaned, we rushed back to the family bathroom in the children's department. On our way out, T spotted some Muzzy kits and begged for one. He didn't know what it was, but he was attracted to the pictures. I explained it to him.

The only choices were German or Italian. He decided on German because I said that dh speaks a little German and that many of his work friends are German. We were lucky to even find Muzzy because it was recently purchased and everyone wants it.

The kids really loved the CDs, although T kept saying it was Spanish. We have that cleared up now. I don't expect them to get anything out of it other than exposure to other languages, which is an important concept in general. They have acquired a few new words and phrases. They really enjoy it. The kits are so well done.

After watching DVD1 twice yesterday, I told them they could watch DVD2 today. T was so excited that he ran around yelling, "Ich bin dick! Ich bin dick!" or "I'm fat!! I'm fat!!" Later, I asked T a question and he slowly replied, "Nein."

Right now, I have to get ready. I need to bike and shower. It's going to be a busy afternoon. First, we're going to look at brick for the house. Then, B has rehearsal for his play this evening.

My little T is reading!

My little T, who just turned 4 last month, has really started to read. There were some past incidents in which he read certain words but we figured they were flukes. Now, I've seen that he actually understands the process of sounding out and blending the beginning, medial and ending sounds. I don't figure he'll actually jump ahead to independent reading any time soon, although I suppose anything is possible. At least with B, there was a very long plateau period. To be completely honest, as much as my kids love books, they would much rather host elaborate birthday parties for their toys and play like that than focus on decoding a book yet. The interest is just really not there yet, but it will come.

Anyway, we had started playing this "game show game" with the Magnadoodle that was a word game. I had noticed that B was still sounding out very common words and sometimes stumbling over the illogical phonics in English. So I thought that he might be open to memorizing some common sight words like "was", "this", etc. I would write a word on the Magnadoodle and quiz him, followed by lots of loud and silly musical play when he got it right. It really did help some of those words stick in his head so that he wouldn't have to sound out words like "was" every time. When it was T's turn, I'd just ask him to spell the words because he only knew a few sight words.

One day, T brought the Magnadoodle to dh and wanted him to play that game with him. Dh wrote "cat" and T immediately declared "cat". Fair enough, that's a really common sight word. So dh proceeded to write "sat", "mat" and even "fat" (a word he's never seen before), with T correctly sounding out each word. Sometimes, we'd have to remind him to start on the left, or he would read "mat" as "tam". But he methodically and easily read, "muh-ah-tuh, muh-at, mat!". We wondered if he just had that "at" ending down due to some recent episode of "Between the Lions" or something.

Then, at the library the other day, when B was in art class, T was browsing through a Nick Jr magazine. He read, "hot", "cold" and "look". "Cold" was "kuh-oh-luh-duh, kuhohl-duh, cohl-duh, colduh!" For "look", he made 4 individual sounds, "luh, oo-oo-kuh, luh-ookuh, look!". When we got home, I pulled out some intermediate Bob books and found that he could read basically any short word as long as it followed simple phonics, e.g. "log", "mop", "rat", etc.

The really funny thing is that he doesn't know all the letter names or all their sounds yet but he can do the next step up. Like, sometimes I have to say "That's an "L" and then he says, "Oh... luh-ohg, log!" Or in the case of rat, he read it as "rot" because he's not sure what sound "a" makes. He did get tired (like B does) after a few words so he then lost interest. I still can't believe he's starting to read though! I don't know where that came from! My younger sister taught herself to read when she was 4, however. Maybe it has something to do with having an older sibling.

B's reading and writing have really been coming along. He is self-taught, but he watches some reading programs (e.g. "Between the Lions") and he gets support from us.

He recently wrote and illustrated some little books. I don't have the drawings scanned but here is the text. I wrote a translation in parentheses after each story.

Book 1:

Ous u pon u time
Dinusor livd in u bush.
Den u meen frend
went in Dinusore bush.
Hee wus raree meen, but hee nevr plade wif him.
But the meen dinusor chride too plae wif the
nise dinusore and the nise dinusore wudit plae wif him.
THE END
(Once upon a time, Dinosaur lived in a bush. Then, a mean friend went in
Dinosaur's bush. He was very mean, but he never played with him. But the
mean dinosaur tried to play with the nice dinosaur and the nice dinosaur
wouldn't play with him.)

Book 2:
Ous u pon u time Stegusoris wus leevnig dinusore's bush.
Den u chronuoedon spilt on him.
(Once upon a time Stegosaurus was leaving Dinosaur's bush.
Then, a pteronodon spilled on him.)

Hee wus mad. (He was mad.)

Hee floo uwae bcus the uvr
dinusore wus mad at him.
(He flew away because the other dinosaur was mad at him.)

THE END

Since then, I have pointed out that the "u" is really "a" even though it really does sound like a short "u". He's corrected that. And I've noticed in a subsequent book that he now writes "once" instead of "ous". He has started writing grocery lists and he also emails his grandparents. He loves to write!

B has finished up another art class at the museum. He first took one about drawing techniques (mostly shading and blending). Then, he took one about paper. In his paper class, they wove a quilt from paper strips; the strips were cut from an abstract painting they made. They also made a collage and did a photomontage. B's favorite part was the photomontage (he says that word!). He was also chatting about Pablo Picasso, because their photomontage was based on Pablo Picasso's cubist faces. The photo was a black-and-white picture of B, colored wildly, cut into bits and pasted in odd places.

He's really enjoyed these classes so much. And he attempts to recreate projects at home. A few weeks ago, he dedicated himself to teaching T how to make a paper quilt. He even made a name-tag for T.

In other news, B is going to be a shepherd in our church's Christmas pageant. I was surprised at how enthuastic he was about the play since he's a very introverted kid. Of course, I'm incredibly introverted and I've always enjoyed acting and public speaking. I don't get nervous at all; the bigger the audience, the easier it is for me. He even memorized many lines from the parts he was going to read for (another weird thing that I do well). He studied the script and matched up the written words with the words he memorized. If he really enjoys this, I'm going to put him in a drama class at the Children's Theatre after the holidays. The class I had in mind is not performance oriented, rather it's fun dramatic interpretation of skits.; there is no production or recital.

Just a quick note. T is sick today and I'm tired from being up with him. We need to do something at some point this week. We borrowed a Spanish CD from the library but I'm having a problem loading it. We also got two books in Spanish from the library: "Goodnight Moon" and "Harold and the Purple Crayon". I figured it would be good to read books that the kids know well. They have loved them! Sometimes they try to repeat what I say. We're having a great time!

B is enjoying his latest art class. I don't know if there will be another one offered until after Christmas, which is sure to make him sad. Whenever I pick him, he just bounds out of the elevator to see me. He looks so happy to be there.

T has recently started Sunday School. I was positive that he was not ready to separate from me. If B were with him, it would have been OK but that's not how the age division works. The Youth Director told me I could just accompany him to class and help out while I was staying with him. He's prone to meltdowns lately, so that was another concern in my mind.

Anyway, on the drive over, he announced that he would be going by himself. I knew that would never happen. We dropped B off first. Then, I brought T to his room and introduced him to his teachers. He told me to leave. And when I left, he didn't even turn around and wave! I even went back in one more time to tell them to bring him to me if he melted down and he didn't even notice me. I was shocked! When I picked him up, he was happily coloring with other kids and he was very content. And you know what? His behavior at home has improved since then!

I was really surprised that he went by himself and did so well. I was also amused to see how he acted on his own. He's always in B's shadow, it seems like, because B asserts himself as the creative play leader at home. When the teacher told T that they were going to make a boat out of blocks for animals (Noah's Ark), he asserted, "I have an idea! We can make a ZOO for these animals!" It was funny to see him interacting with other children without B standing close by. It's been good for him.

I have to go do kid stuff now.

B abruptly asked me for plastic baggies and straws yesterday so that he could make a "Visible Lobster". I have a Visible Woman from the 1980s that he loves. And they apparently make a "Visible Cow" which he desperately wants. Anyway, he likes anatomy and the idea of a visible or see-through body.

So he made this "Visible Lobster". Dh printed off a picture of lobster internal anatomy. And then B set to work with his Scotch Tape, which I need to buy in bulk at this point. Btw, if you make superhero costumes out of paper and Scotch Tape them to your hair and face, they really hurt when they come off.

Anyway, here it is. It's was really hard to take a picture of, because of the reflective nature of the sandwich baggies. But he used 4 sandwich baggies and cut them into various pieces, then taped them together. The actual body is like a long loop; it's connected on the ends to create a front and back but the sides are open. He's holding it by the tail in this picture. You can see the straw legs on either side. And then there are straw antennae on its head. The yellow zip-loc on the head is its mouth. The small green circle is the heart. The blue strip is a long vein. The squiggly red strip is a blood vessel. The purple and yellow object represents the intestines. And there you go, a Visible Lobster.

The kids are watching another episode of "Plaza Sesamo" right now. T surprised me the other day when I heard him singing, "cerca cerca cerca". I asked him what he was saying and he said, "That means 'nearer' in Spanish. They sing that on the Spanish Sesame Street." I've ordered Spanish tapes from the library and I need to pick them up today.

B has taken some classes recently. He's started another art class, which is focused on making things from paper, a B specialty!

He also took a workshop at the Planetarium. I was unable to chaperone his Planetarium class because younger siblings were not allowed to attend. It's run by the school district so they're very strict about "grades" and ages. When I dropped him off, I was surprised to see how many kids were there. I thought it would be a smaller homeschool gathering. I didn't realize that an elementary school would be there and that there would be tons of children. I was nervous about leaving him, because he didn't really know anyone and I was worried that he would get lost. Thankfully, a homeschooling Mom chaperone, who I don't even know, put her hand on his back and talked to him. She kept an eye out for him and I really appreciated that.

I was supposed to pick him up at the Planetarium right before they went to lunch. When I arrived early to pick him up, his group had already left for lunch and I couldn't find him. No one knew where his group was. I started to panic a little. Then, I found the receptionist's desk and the receptionist was able to tell me exactly where he was, down to the specific picnic table number. The nice chaperone Mom had given him one of their cookies. I thanked her profusely and then we went home.

I was so nervous about this school-like setting because he's completely unused to that and I was really nervous that he would get lost in the shuffle. But he was SO incredibly excited about his experience. I have never heard him talk that much after a class. Usually, I have to interview him to get the most basic details. In this case, he was gushing about what happened.

The Planetarium "ceiling" opened up to show a video about the Universe. But it was one of those interactive films where you feel like you're traveling inside the film, kind of like an IMax experience. They went past Saturn, went past a black hole and to a bunch of other places. Then, when the film was over, they were treated to a virtual roller-coaster ride through space. They were inside a rocket and they sped over loops of "train tracks". It was apparently very realistic and exciting for B. He talked and talked and talked about this workshop. So even though I was unhappy with the logistics, he had a fantastic time.

Our homeschool group had a field trip to a recycling plant today. It was very good, but we weren't able to see a lot, due to safety reasons. We did see the trucks being weighed and trucks loading stuff. We saw some recycled "squares", squished up stuff. It was very loud and smelly and chaotic; the kids loved it!

Our host gave a great talk about recycling. She was enthusiastic, which was wonderful. I'm not sure what my kids retained from it. I think B learned that aluminum comes from inside a rock. He may or may not remember that plastic is made from oil. He learned that paper is recycled by shredding and mixing it with water. He had seen a cartoon version of this on "Charlie and Lola" so he had a general idea to begin with. Overall, it was very good.

I learned a ton. I learned that I have been putting things in the recycling bins that our county is not equipped to take. Even though OJ cartons and yogurt pots are recyclable, our county does not recycle them. I also learned that our facility sells the recycled materials and that China is their biggest customer. It was very interesting, although I feel sad that I cannot recycle as much stuff as I thought I could.

Right now, the kids are watching some TV. They're watching a Reading Rainbow episode about art. They just finished watching, "Plaza Sesamo", which I taped for them over the weekend. They both seem to enjoy it very much, although as it was ending, B said that he wanted something in English. But in a small dose, they enjoyed it. We talked about a new word: pan or bread. I translated some of what they were saying but not most of it, because then it would just be me talking over their show. I was surprised at how much of it I could still understand because I have lost so much Spanish. It's funny to me that I couldn't remember how to say simple words and phrases like "eating", "running", "hard work" but I could understand them when I heard them. I think my goal of reviving my rusty Spanish is definitely attainable now. I only wish we still had the Spanish channel; we should have it in the new house.

Science Center Trip

We visited our local science center today, which is only open to the public for one day of the month. We have an annual membership which is well worth it. I can't believe we have such a fabulous science center in our back yard! There's so much to do in the various buildings that we are never able to do it all in one day.

Today, we focused on the natural science building. We held and touched various animals. B held a tarantula, a baby mouse and a Madagascar hissing cockroach. He loves those cockroaches for some reason and he kept laughing when it repeatedly tried to run up his arm and make a break for it. B is a very gentle guy with great regard for all creatures. The one time that he accidentally stepped on a beetle, he cried hard about it because he felt so sad about what he'd done. So, while it always surprises me that he's being so brave with bugs, it also seems fitting that he would like a hissing cockroach as much as any other animal. We were able to hear the cockroaches hiss, btw, which was so loud!

Following B's lead, I decided to be brave and hold the tarantula. I'm generally squeamish and nervous about animals in general (especially bugs) but I really like spiders for some reason. Still, there's such a strong mental aversion to touching something like a tarantula. But you know, once I had it on my hand, it really felt like any other pet. Its legs were soft and nice. And it felt furry like a hamster. It was a nice animal. I wasn't brave enough to hold the cockroach but I did touch one.

T also surprised us by touching some animals because, normally, he's very adverse to even getting near them. With one finger, he touched a tree frog, a baby mouse and a ferret. The ferret was almost like a dog or a cat, very sociable and snuggly. B and I also touched some snakes but T abstained.

B also examined various bones in the animal rooms including a snake skeleton and turtle shells.

In one of the marine rooms, he touched the horseshoe crabs, sting-rays and a starfish. In another marine room, they had cow bones out for some bizarre reason. At any rate, B held part of the cow spine and he was thrilled to discover the tunnel where the spinal cord would go inside the vertebrae. Dh, B and T did a bug puzzle. We looked at animal X-rays. And we watched a working honey bee hive that is temporarily being kept in the marine room. B commented that one honeybee was working by himself and how sad he must feel to be alone.

Then, we went to the Living Farm. In the main house, we ate cinnamon fritters that were cooked over a fire. I made a comment about a checkerboard on the wall which led to one of the interpreters talking about how they would use corn cob slices as pieces. That led to a discussion of natural pigments for paint. Then, somehow, we ended up talking about mattresses, straw and bed bugs.

We wandered over to the blacksmith's shop, where we chatted with him for a while. He let B pump the bellows, which was exciting. The kids got a kick out of watching him hammer a red-hot piece of metal and make designs in it.

Then, we went into the barn to see the animals. The kids ground up corn to feed the chickens. There's a nice elderly man who is an interpreter and he loves to chat to anyone who will listen. I spoke to him for a while. He let B brush the horse.

In a shelter, there was a wood-working activity going on. B patiently waited for over 20 minutes to have a turn, while the woodworker helped another boy measure and cut some wood. An older boy helped B sharpen a chisel on a wetstone. Then, when it was B's turn to do workworking, the woodworker spent about 20 minutes with him. He showed him how to use a spoke shave tool to turn a wooden block into a dowel. He was so patient and spent so much time with B. B was really thrilled. When we left, he sent B with the dowel he made, in addition to some sandpaper.

Now, B is really interested in woodworking. Dh loves to do woodworking but we always had space issues. In the new house, dh will have his own shop in the basement. The guys are so excited about the idea of doing woodworking in the new shop. I had bought a book called, "Carpentry for Children" by Lester R. Walker. There are lots of great projects in that book and I can't wait for them to be able to do some!

On a completely unrelated note, I have been inspired to try to speak Spanish to the kids at intervals in the day. I pick up languages very easily and I love studying languages. I even studied Chinese Mandarin one semester and did very well in it. I wade through written Polish when I do genealogy. With the Spanish, I dated a guy from South America and I had tons of South American friends. Subsequently, I had frequent language immersion opportunities. It got to the point where I was very good at speaking Spanish. I wasn't fluent. But, well, one time a guy who was talking about my friend had to switch to Spanish Pig Latin because I was translating for her regardless of how quickly he spoke. I passed a graduate level Spanish exam without taking the class; I had to translate a Spanish essay about the political effect of nuclear weapons development.

And now, 15 years later...I have lost most of my Spanish. It seems like such a waste. I just haven't had the opportunity to use it. The Latin American population is rapidly growing where we live, but even with random situations, it's not enough to keep my skills up. I was thinking about all of this one night, as I was dithering about choosing a language course from the library (French? German? Chinese?) . I was thinking that it's a shame I couldn't expose my kids to some foreign language. Then, I thought that perhaps I could get Spanish language tape and try to jog my memory. Dh said that he supposed that it would help sensitize the kids' brains for future foreign language acquisition, even if they didn't learn any functional Spanish now.

So, I've decided to go ahead and try it. I have language tapes on order with the library, but I've started speaking some rusty Spanish to the kids, like "Would you like a TV show?", "Sit down.", "Ready? Let's go." At first I really felt like a dork; I'm sure I sound like one because I have lost my nice accent. :-( But my kids actually really took to it! They were actually enthusiastic about it, which surprised me. They try to repeat what I say and they sometimes remember what a phrase means. Of course, throwing in English words and using sign language helps. I thought that maybe we could borrow some Spanish translations of picture books we know well; the library has a ton of those. B has been bugging me every day to see if the language tapes are in yet. They might not learn much but I think it must be good for them to hear it.

We went to the library to pick up some audio books I ordered. B has been really into audio books. When he first discovered that he could get his favorite books in audio format, he listened to an entire book in one sitting, which took 3.5 hours. Since then, he gives himself breaks. But he often puts an audio book first thing in the morning. He listens to them at frequent intervals during the day. He has left the supper table early to listen to one. I'm having a hard time keeping up.

So, I ordered a ton of Magic Treehouse books, "The Mouse and Motorcyle" by Beverly Cleary and Milne's "Winnie the Pooh". That should keep him going for a while. When I got slack in getting new audio books, he listened to Roald Dahl's "BFG" over and over. We figure he must have listened to it about 5 times! Dh is hoping that B will take off with reading soon so that he can do this himself without the limitations of keeping a good stock of new audio books. The library doesn't have a great selection of audio books. And they're expensive to buy. So I can kind of see dh's point. Oh well. I'm just glad he likes books so much.

At the library, B picked up a few books in the children's section. He wandered down a few aisles and came back with a book about space and a book about working dogs. Then, he wanted my help finding a bone book, so we found, "The Skeletal System" by Caroline Arnold.

We read the entire skeletal system book when we got home. It was about 43 pages. We learned about bone shapes (flat bones, long bones, etc), the anatomy of bones (periosteum, marrow, etc), the function of common bones, joints (ball and socket, hinge joints, etc), and how muscles and bones attach (tendons, cartilage, ligaments).

I forgot to post yesterday but we went to the zoo with some friends of ours. We had a fantastic time.

T just completely freaked me out! He's about to turn 4 and he's desperate for his birthday to arrive. He was complaining that it still wasn't his birthday so I sat him on my lap and I showed him the computer calendar. I was explaining that he had a couple of weekends to go. He said something about it being two days and I said that it was more like 14 days or so. I'm too paranoid to post his actual birthday so I'm going to change what he said. I said, "See, today is the 12th and your birthday is on this date." And he said, "Aw! That's 16 days!" And it WAS exactly that number of days!

Impromptu Math Lessons

The kids have been getting $1 a week for allowance for a few months. It started when B abruptly cried at supper one night with the declaration that everyone had money except for him. Since the allowance started, the kids have been learning to save and make consumer choices. They've also been learning about currency since they frequently ask how much various toys are; we've been reading the price tags together and talking about what the decimal point means and everything. It's been good for them.

The first time, they saved up enough money to buy a Star Wars figure. They had some existing money in their wallets that preceded the allowance policy. Next, they wanted to buy a remote control robot. Since the two of them had broken one of B's birthday presents, a remote control robot, I was going to subsidize this purchase. They really didn't play roughly with the toy, but the toy appeared to be poorly made and broke very easily.

I decided to put in the same amount of money that each of them put towards the toy. The toy cost $12 so we were all going to contribute $4. We spoke about the breakdown of cost and how it made sense. Then, at the last minute, T changed his mind and went back on the deal. Now that he had to spend his own money, he was going to be choosy about what he spent it on. We spent 15 minutes or more, looking at different toys and talking about whether he had enough money or not. He wanted a $20 toy; he insisted it was only $1 because it said "1st Edition" on it.

Ultimately, he had to choose something that he could afford. I decided that, since I was going to contribute $4 towards the original toy, I would give them each $2. They each chose a small robotic toy, with B still managing to get the original robot he wanted. They didn't quite have enough money so I made a deal with them. In addition to the $2 that I was giving them, I would LOAN them $2 each. This meant that, not only were they depleting what was in their wallets, but they would have to pay me their allowance money for the next two weeks to pay off their loan. They agreed with some degree of reservation.

Later that night, dh talked about how a real loan would charge interest and how they were actually getting an interest-free loan. When dh explained that we have to pay the bank to borrow their money, B countered that the bank pays us to use OUR money. He was right. They were both right. A small discussion ensued about that.

Earlier in the day, when we were trying to determine if we had enough money to buy the original toy, I asked them how much they had in their wallets. B had $8 and T had $6. I asked B how much that was, all together. He replied, "10!". I said, "No. Think about it again." He looked up toward the ceiling and one second later replied, "14!". Sometimes I sweat it that he doesn't have math facts memorized. But then I can see that he can actually manipulate numbers without memorizing the answers and I feel better. Dh is fantastic with math and he doesn't even have his times tables memorized! He can just figure it himself. I'm sure there will be some memorization required in the future, but for the time being, I feel good about B's math understanding despite the fact that we don't "do math". Maybe we should "do math" more often.

I wrote this for a homeschool list

I wasn't sure what we were going to do today. Moving to an apartment has been an adjustment, with the biggest thing I miss being our fenced back yard. We're still trying to figure out a routine or a set of plausible routines, I think. We need to get out more to compensate for the lack of a yard, but we have to be careful not to go out too much. Being introverts, there's a fine line between going out too much and not enough.

So, we decided to head downtown for one more day this week. Earlier in the morning, B listened to the BFG on and off. T built something with B's girder and panel construction set. They played with two baby dolls at one point, but I'm not sure what they did. B announced that he had written the word "spikey". Upon further investigation, we found that he had written "spicey" so I suggested he just draw a line next to the 'c' to turn it into a 'k'. Moments after this, T asked me to help him write, "Mikey". The next thing I knew, the boys were playing some dinosaur soap opera, with T's spiked dinosaur being renamed as "Mikey".

When we arrived downtown, I was really surprised and disappointed that my favorite map store was gone. I used to love that store, but I had not been there in a long time. I was looking forward to showing it to the kids. The store had some really odd and unusual things with a map theme. We were disappointed. We decided to get coffee and weigh our options.

In the coffee shop, we looked at the art they were selling and talked about what we liked and what we thought the art represented. B started chatting about the art class he is taking. He was saying how they were presented with fruit on a table to copy and that the teacher suggested they get up and walk around to get ideas of what they might want to add to their drawing. This was the class on Tuesday where they used oil pastel crayons, but these additional details were just now being shared. B was saying how he and another boy walked to the fruit display together and how they had both copied some element from each other's drawing. This led to a really good discussion of how artists, writers, etc get inspired by others.

I had picked up a pamphlet about a monthly poetry reading at this coffee shop. I am very interested in going, but I think it's too late at night for B. However, this led to a little discussion about poetry. B commented at some point that poetry rhymes, which led me to giving examples of non-rhyming poetry. We talked about haiku and I promised to read him some at home; I have a book of haiku on the shelf somewhere. We talked about a few elements of poetry. I tried to explain what a metaphor was, but I don't think I did a very good job. I used an example from a poem I wrote in high school, where I wrote about a hunched over giant but I was really describing a mountain.

This led the conversation to artists presenting one image (mental or physical) but implying another. We talked about how, in art, a painting of a concrete object isn't necessarily about the object; often, the artist might be trying to say something else entirely. We frequent the Art Museum, so we've seen examples of this before. And then, we spoke about how different people interpret art differently and how sometimes, the artist is purposely vague so that it takes a lot of thinking to discern what the art represents.

As we sat eating our chocolate chip muffins, we noticed a painting in front of our couch. It looked like a painting of a leafy bush on blue circular background. B liked the beadwork that had been glued to it. Then, he said that he didn't think it was a painting of a leafy bush at all. He thought it was an aerial view of a coconut tree on an island; we were looking at the very top of its tuft and the blue circular background was the ocean around the island. I had not looked at it that way, so it was cool to think of it in this different way.

We decided to just walk around downtown. We did stop by the Falls Park, but we only briefly looked at the waterfall. I had 2 hour parking and it's nearly impossible to get parking during lunchtime. So, we decided to just have a little walk and head back to the car. We walked under the bridge, where the kids discovered that they could make echos. Some really bad yodeling ensued. Then, B jumped inside a circular stone design on the pavement and declared that he was inside the Arctic circle. They were in good spirits and the weather was perfect.

We did eventually make our way back to the car and we went home. At home they watched some TV, including their beloved Zula Patrol and Cyberchase (math cartoon, kind of cool). B listened to some more BFG at one point and they did play again at one point, but I'm kind of vague on what they did. I do remember that he's near the end of the BFG, because he was talking about how the Palace staff is going to make a table for the BFG out of the Queen's ping-pong table.

We had to run out and get a few things for supper. In the car, we talked about B's cell project. The night before, I had made the basic structure for him out of two cardboard circles pushed together in a sort of perpendicular fashion. We talked about how he might want to tackle it. Did he want to paint it or color it with crayons? Did he need my help with the organelles? He decided that he would use crayons, after we determined that the tempura paint would probably flake off. And he decided that he would make two lists: one for what he needs to do and one for what he needs me to help him with. He picked up a free shopping list form at the store for this end. I get the idea that I will help by assisting with cutting organelles out and possibly reading some of the organelle names to him.

He wanted to do it immediately when we got home, but it was a bit too late. Dh was going to be home late due to work. I had to get supper set up. And then we had our chiropractor appt. We had been to the chiro's for her fun day earlier in the week, but we had to get adjusted on this night as we do every two weeks.

We headed to the chiropractor's, which is a favorite place of both kids. They played in her toy room. Then, when we went into the adjustment room, B and I looked at her pelvis model since we were reading about that earlier in the week. She answered some questions that B had about the pelvis. And she also said that "coxa" means "cow", which I thought was kind of weird. When we went out to the front room, B asked her if she could hold her real human skull. She kindly obliged him and showed the boys how the bottom jaw came off and how the teeth came out. Then, she let them hold it, which was really exciting for B. He found the hole in the skull where the spinal cord goes, something he had been wondering about. The chiro then explained how the brain gradually turns into the spinal cord and then comes out that hole.

By the time we got home, it was basically bedtime. Dh and B are *stlll* working on "Paddington Bear". T requested the two 'Chicka Chicka' books, both of which I had read several times earlier in the day.

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There was more BFG at various points of the day. T wants to be involved but he has a habit of talking over the tape. I set him up with a Laurie Berkener music CD on the computer. With that and the interesting Linux screensavers, he was good for a while. Isn't that terrible? The Linux people shouldn't make their screensavers so fascinating, however, because even I have a hard time walking by when one is running.

At other points of the day, T removed sections of the human body skeleton and tried to reassemble them. We eventually put it all away because it had been out for a few days and it was getting trashed.

B really did learn the prefix "semi" wrt the washable markers, after T decorated both of his hands while I typed this. Sigh. And as I said, about half of it remained after multiple handwashings. Oh well.

So T obviously had a blast with the markers. And B drew a few pictures with his set:
1. Skeleton with focus on ribs and pelvis (b/c we read about it earlier). That massive thing right down the middle of the ribs is the sternum. I assume those black masses are lungs inside the ribs, because we had spoken about how the ribs are slightly flexible for respiration. I don't know how many ribs he drew; he didn't have the book in front of him so he may have been guessing. But the bottom two ribs are free-floating like that, only attached to the vertebrae in back. I learned something today! And then he drew the pelvis with an emphasis on how it's two massive parts (the coxae mentioned earlier) are held together. The pointy part of the end of the spine is the coccyx, a word I can never pronounce correctly (kind of like 'cinnamon').
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2. Internal organs on a human
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The red/blue lines leading to the heart are "blood vessels that attach to the brain". The heart and lung combo is kind of small. The brown liver dominates the drawing. The green thing under the liver is the gallbladder, but he doesn't know the name or function of that; he just remembers that he's seen a green thing on the bottom of the liver before. The stomach is underneath that, followed by square intestines. The kidneys are tiny things on the outer sides and they attach to a yellow bladder (hard to see in this pic) with red ureters; he does not remember the term "ureters".

That's B: art, construction and science like I said in my intro. And as I said in the intro, this is what he needs to be doing. Sure, he doesn't know who the Mayans are yet and he can't define the term "antonym" (to recall that 1st grade thread) but this is what he likes so this is what he knows. I love watching him get excited about things that interest him. He wouldn't get encouragement or support in these areas in school right now; I think he'd be miserable, tbh. This is what he needs to do.

We didn't end up going to the play area, which was good because both kids got really tired and grumpy. They made a very small museum before dinner. Actually, there was just one exhibit, which was the small 3D paper skull from the other day. It's apparently "a million, billion years old" and it's the very first human skull. It has a purple appearance, not because of the purple construction paper, but because it's so old and it was impossible to carefully clean all the dirt off. There was just the one exhibit, but there was a lot of planning related chatter about the museum. I could hear B correcting T every time T called B by his pet name, "Didi". Instead, I could hear T calling him by his full name. I asked B why he was insisting that T call him that when he doesn't even call himself that. He something about official museum people, such as himself, never go by nicknames.

While I was making supper, B wanted to see my scales. I showed him how the "oz" meant "ounces" and how it was a way of weighing things. Then, he watched me try to get 10 oz of black beans. I think there were like 9 1/8 or something. I pointed out the fraction and tried to explain that it was less than 1...I tried to do a little general explanation of what it means and that if I got up to 8/8 that would be 1. Then I'd have 9+1. It's the kind of thing he's going to learn, I guess, just from practical applications like this and seeing it a lot.

Before bedtime, I read two of the "Chicka chicka" books to T. Now, dh is in there, reading bedtime stories: Paddington Bear for B and whatever T chooses in the world of picture books.

Do you know what I need to do? I desperately need to make up some homeschooling event calendars for myself. My printer is not working right now, so I've procrastinated making the calendars; I just need to do it online. Usually, I plot out all doctor's appts, concerts, storytimes, playdates, et al. That way, I can obviously see if anything clashes and I can also see if we have any massive gaps in the "something-to-do department." Maybe I'll go start that now.

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So, the kids watched TV for a while, as I exercised and showered. I got distracted by an episode of Mr. Roger's Neighborhood and I ended up watching a chunk of it. Mr. Rogers was talking to Lynn Swann, a famous NFL football player back in the day. Lynn Swann not only played professional football, but he also took ballet classes. His dance education pre-dated his football career. I really enjoyed seeing a big macho sort of guy performing ballet. I was glad my boys could watch that.

They also watched a Reading Rainbow episode about Ancient Egypt. They've seen it once before; B was very taken with the creation of mummies. The episode featured a book by Aliki called, "Mummies, Made in Egypt". I need to check that out at the library. It explained all the gory details of how the organs are removed, how fluids are removed, etc. It also talked very briefly about the ancient Egyptians' religious beliefs, which provided a tangent on how our religious beliefs differ and how they are similar. The book also showed the general geography of ancient Egypt.

In the episode, Levar goes to the Museum of Fine Arts in Boston, where they apparently have several really nice mummies. B said at one point, "That's beautiful!" I mentioned how I was from Boston but how I have never been inside that particular museum. A short film was shown which showed actual footage from inside a Pyramid, presumably provided by the museum. B loves the part where the mummy is scanned and its head is recreated with clay.

B was looking at his DK Visual Encyclopedia of Skeletons so I offered to read it to him. It can be very difficult to read his books to him, because T wants to be intimately involved in everything B does and he doesn't have the patience for all B's stuff. So, we put on the "Charlie and Lola" show for T and I read to B in the other room.

For the 20-30 minutes while the show played, I read the pages he chose for me: ribcage, pelvis and skeletal varieties 1. He had lots of remarks to make and I had to give some synonyms for some of the words in the book, so we were both tired and completely done at the end! In the ribcage chapter, we identified the sternum/breastbone on our bodies, we read about the function of the ribs, and we learned about the types of ribs. Ribs 8-12 are called "false ribs" for example, something that cracked B up. We also saw some non-human ribs like snake ribs.

On the pelvis page, he showed me which bones the pelvis is comprised of and how they attach. He does not know the names of these bones, so I read those. We both learned that the two major sides of the pelvis are called "coxae". Each coxa is made of smaller bones; I don't remember the names but one was the ischium. We looked at a picture of human pelvis, in addition to that of a chimpanzee, cow and dog. It was interesting to see that the cow, dog and chimpanzee pelvises were very narrow in comparison to the human one. We talked about the coccyx and the sacrum, but we both got confused by which one was as he called it, "the sharp pointy part at the end".

On the skeletal varieties 1 page, we read about the basic types of skeletons. In addition to endo and exoskeletons, the book cites some sort of fluid filled structure in earthworms and trees. I took issue with the usage of the word "skeleton" as it relates to the last two, but I'm not really a science person. B got a little confused about endo and exo, thinking that one meant the front of the vertebrate skeleton and one meant the back. We cleared that up and once he understood it, he contributed some examples of his own, like the hermit crab (exoskeleton). He showed me how the tortoise has both types; that was very interesting to me. Then, he brought up jellyfish, because they are invertebrates but yet they are not crunchy on the outside; that led to a completely different tangent about an aquarium trip we took last year.

Some of the general words that I provided easier synonyms for (i.e. I read the original word and then gave a common synonym) were: respiration, inhale, organism, limbless, and tubular.

B started chatting about earthworms after I took issue with the usage of the word "skeleton" as it relates to them and we debated the color of the worm's 5 hearts. To placate him, I found some worm dissection pictures online. He was very satisfied to see the dorsal blood vessel but a little disappointed that it was not red like he imagined. We also talked about how worms are hermaphrodites ("No way!") and how they make "babies". With the mention of the worms' ovaries and testes, he felt compelled to demonstrate where his own testes were. (We read a book about human reproduction recently so the word "testicles" seems to come up at supper a lot.) I made some mention of worm poop, which led him to excitedly describe how worms speed up decomposition in the soil (he pronounced "decompose" in a cute way but I can't remember how) and how they basically make compost.

At this point, my brain was kind of tired so I decided to write this while they ate a late lunch. B burst in while I was typing, saying that he wanted to learn some "science facts". When I asked him what he specifically wanted to learn, he said he wanted to see the insides of the intestines and how they go through the body and eventually "make poop". Then, T discovered some washable markers and that lured them both to the kitchen, where they are currently drawing. B pointed to the package when I was recently in their room and told me, "This says 'washable'." That led to a weird discussion about how washable markers are not fully washable at all, which led to me explaining what the word "semi" means; they are semi-washable, really.

And now, I hope to take a bit of a break while they draw. We're listening to the African music channel on xmradio, which is my new favorite channel, I think. Later, I'll probably take the kids out to the play area later, before dh gets home.

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It's been another wonderfully lazy morning. I still need to shower and I should find the kids to dress them. I was the last person out of bed this morning, groggy due to noisy neighbors in the apartment below late last night. As I lay in bed this morning, trying to completely wake up, I could hear the kids chattering to dh over breakfast. B asked dh what the area around the North Pole was called. If the area around the South Pole was "Antarctica", then what do we call the area around the North Pole? (The Arctic, of course). Then, I heard them planning something, with dh admonishing them not to jump on me with it as soon as I crawled out of bed.

Their plans related to the empty box they found last night (in the last picture I posted). They wanted to turn it into a car, but they needed help with the big scissors. As soon as I woke up a bit more, I cut off the flaps like they requested, following by cutting out a door that B drew. They taped up a weak side and began drawing on the inside of the box. T's job was to draw a radio. Eventually, B taped the discarded flaps to the back of the box so that it looked like an open, sideways box attached to the car. Then, he taped paper over the opening and said it was the car's trunk. Right now, an assortment of dolls are chilling in the cool car. They were arguing about what kind of car it was, but I'm not sure what they settled on.

T took some of the human skeleton puzzle apart so he could put it back together. Mostly, they've played with the box car and given voices to the dolls that are riding inside. I caught a moth at one point and we examined that.

After the dh conversation and before the box transformation, they listened to some of the BFG on tape. B is listening to it again, while hiding in his castle cubby.

I'm not sure what we'll do later this afternoon. The kids cheerfully cleared off the entire kitchen table, because they want to paint. I need to get the paints out of the box so they can do it. I've just been procrastinating, because I'm afraid it will be too messy in this apartment. Normally, they don't spill, however, and dh did put some mats down. That's what we need to do in a little bit, since they were so excited about it.

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My homeschool day started at 6:38 am when T, my cosleeping buddy, started chattering in a very chipper manner like he does.

T – “Mama, when is it going to be morning time?”
Me – (muffled mutter)
T – “How many numbers until morning time?”
Me – (grumbles) “100!”
T- “1...2...3...” (He makes it up to 20 with some skipping in the teens.) Then, he cheerfully asks, “What comes next?”
I start him on the 20s and he gets up to “20-10” and gets stuck. I start him on the 30s, more awake at this point than I had hoped to be. I make a valiant effort to explain that he basically just has to count to 10 over and over again until he does it 10 times. Thinking he might have understood this at 40, I hear “41...42...43...83...84...85...100!!!! It's morning time!!!!”
If my kids ever sleep past 730, I'll be shocked.

Early in the morning, B colored. T drew, which he doesn't normally do.
After looking at a long line with a stick and some small circles above the line, I commented, “Oh, look at the train you're drawing!”
T- “It's not a train! It's 'One Thousand!!' And this one here (he points to 100000...) is one TRENTY!”
T- “You know what's two 1000s?”
Me-”What?”
T-”One-Trenty! That's a LOT! When I grow up and become an engineer and I'm going to have this number, one trenty!”
T- (starts trying to sound something out and settles on the word 'goofy'.) “Mama, how do you spell 'goofy'? “
Knowing that he's been trying to sound out lately, I say, “Well, what does it start with? G-g-goofy...”
T- “a Ghee!”
Me – “Yes, a 'gee'. What makes the next sound, 'oo oo'?”
T – “Monkeys!”, collapsing with laughter.
Realizing he was right, I giggled. We had a good laugh, while B tried to explain that two o's make the 'oo' sound. Clearly, the joke was lost on him.

He was on a roll this morning. Later he asked, “Mama, when I am going to be humongous and be even bigger than you?”

At one point, B drew a map of what he wanted our new backyard to look like. He drew two tree houses, with a bridge leading down to a wooden dinosaur. In B fashion, he circled a couple of details and then drew a larger sketch of what those details would look like if they were bigger.

While I got ready, the kids looked through a pile of books while listening to another Henry Huggins audio tape. I vowed to make it to the library today so that B didn't have to listen to the same CDs over and over! The kids were flipping through some kids' anatomy books, the DK dinosaur encyclopedia, a Curious George book and “Miranda the Explorer”, among others. I asked T for a kiss and he sternly told me, “This is the library. There's no kissing allowed!” Then, they went back to their book pile. I promised to read “Miranda the Explorer” (by James Mayhew) later.

Once we were all ready, we went to what we simply refer to as “downtown”; it's the big county seat and the big city in this area of the state. There are lots of things to do downtown, but I suggested looking for some obscure park I read about in a guidebook that I had never heard of. First we got coffee in a new place, a coffee shop that curiously sells woolen items. The kids played chess, or at least their own version of it. B is trying to remember which pieces move in which particular way, whereas T is concerned with jumping and taking enemy pieces in any way he feels like it; it makes for contentious games. We talked about how the sheep had their hair cut and how that wool is spun into thread to make things in the shop, more of a lesson for T than anyone else. We touched the wool stuff (super expensive!) and then moved on.

The obscure city park was very near the coffee shop. It was very small, a planned children's garden near an underpass. This whole section of the downtown area has been undergoing a massive revitalization campaign, one which probably started almost 20 years ago when the trees were planted in downtown and one that has picked up with dizzying speed recently as the area has experienced growth. A large and smelly old river was cleaned up and reclaimed. Now this river area is full of gorgeous city parks, upscale condos, art galleries, fancy restaurants and a large theater complex.

After playing in the “children's garden” for a while, we leisurely walked back along the river. We looked in the windows of several art galleries. B was really attracted to a boat sculpture that was made of crinkled newspaper strips. He wanted to look at some chalk art on the path, so we looked at those and discussed the famous paintings that they were based on. We discovered urban water sprinklers that were designed for kids to admire and to walk in. I wish I had known about those when we had temperatures in the 100s F!

We eventually ended up at large toy store, one that attracts people with its boutique toys and availability of toys to freely play with. This is not a homeschool particular, but I knew the MDC crowd would appreciate this: I got irked by a Mom who wouldn't let her little girl out of her stroller to play with the train table that she desperately wanted but she let her play with the dollhouse instead.

We wound up at the library where I was unable to find an audio tape of Paddington Bear, but I did find the BFG by Roald Dahl. It was part of the same series as the Eric Idle narration of “Charlie...”

It was actually pretty late in the afternoon when we got home. The kids watched Postman Pat and then the Magic SchoolBus space episode.

Before supper, B started working on a giant paper castle he's planning. He wants to make it big enough for T to enter and play inside, in the hopes that it will give T something to do while B listens to audio books. So far, he's drawn and colored about 5 bricks.

At supper time, one of B's remarks led to a zillion tangents. He remarked that men are taller than women, which led me to say that I would be taller than many men in the world, which required an explanation of how different ethnicities share common genes which give some general characteristics (e.g. skin color, height). That further required a list of exceptions (e.g. the U.S.) which were based on migrations. That led to a discussion about how many ethnicities, e.g. the English, are based on a mixed gene pool from various migrations (e.g. the Jutes, Romans and Vikings). There was a brief mention of the Native Americans originating from Asia. And there was a brief chat about the original humans probably coming from Africa, based on the oldest human skeletons that have been found.

B said he wished that the Vikings came to America so he could personally find a Viking skeleton (hopefully with a Viking hat). That tangent led us to talk about Vinland and how the Vikings could have hopped, skipped and jumped across. I mentioned that York, England has a big Viking historical center. Dh added that York also has fantastic train museum and that the Flying Scotsman from the Thomas stories is from York. Now, the three of us really want to visit York the next time we go to England.

B thought there was a New York in England, which led to a discussion about how the English named New York and other places in America after their homes. Suddenly, I had “They Might be Giants” in my head and I was saying how it used to be New Amsterdam. B wanted to know where Amsterdam was (and he thought it was a funny place name) so I showed him on a world placemat.

While dh and T played soccer in the other room, Ben burst into the study (where I was typing this), complaining that he needed help with his giant paper castle. I'm not really good at architectural things. But I had him stand on the floor and I put papers around him and showed him how to estimate how much paper he would need to build the perimeter. We determined that he would need roughly 3 sheets of paper across and 3 deep. I pointed out that he would therefore need 9, with 3 3s being 9. Dh interjected that he didn't think it would be architecturally sound, so when I left them, they were attempting to use a box to brace it.

When I came back in, dh and both boys were busy taping paper together. They had decided that such a large paper box would not stand up by itself, unlike the small paper tower that Ben had already created. Dh convinced them to tape a panel across a recessed storage area to make a cubby-hole castle. Ben discovered an outlet under there and before I knew it, both kids were inside the castle, listening to the BFG audio book. Then, they went to bed.

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So when I left off, the kids were watching TV. We watched a Reading Rainbow episode together about cats: tigers, lions, housecats and the musical Cats. The kids were really impressed with the makeup transformation in Cats; the show gave us a step by step makeup transformation.

They played after I turned it off, but I don't remember what they did. I put music on again. This time, we listened to the African music channel on my satellite radio, followed by Jamaican music and Latin jazz.

I had a doctor's appt this afternoon so dh came home a bit early to take B to art class. For the hour and a half of art class, dh and T wandered around. First, they walked downtown to look at the shops. Then, they wandered back to the big library.

When they came home, T had chosen a book about BMWs. Dh chose a kids' book about impressionism for B, because he wanted a book with paintings. They returned some of the audio books. I need to get more. In art class, the kids used oil pastel crayons. B said that white was a magic color in oil pastels, because if you put it over your regular colors, the regular colors look better and the white also fills in the holes.

After supper, dh and the boys worked on the human skeleton puzzle that was started earlier. T left supper early to work on it. Then, dh and Ben wandered in to help.

And that was our night.

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Again, in the early morning, the kids alternated between playing with each other and listening to Henry Huggins. They used their balloons from yesterday to help their toy rockets fly. At a later point, they played with the tub of sea animal toys. I overheard something about a hyper swordfish that was leaping out of the ocean. And then T exclaimed that his fish had become a fossil.

B and I talked about abbreviations, because he needed to rewind his tape and the button said "rew".

T couldn't really be bothered with much of Henry Huggins so he wanted to hear something else. We listened to some Laurie Berkener in the main room again. Then, he said he wanted to hear the train song. I wasn't sure which song he was talking about until he indicated that it was the one about the choo choo train coming back. He was talking about a Peggy Lee song on my old standards CD called, “Waiting for the Train to Come in”. He really loves that song because of the train theme and because she uses the word “melancholy” which is a T favorite for some reason. He sings some of the words when I play it.

Here is an excerpt from the the song:
“Waiting for the train to come in...
I'm waiting for my man to come home...
I've waited every hour of every live-long day.
Been so melancholy since he went away.
...
I'm waiting by the depot at the railroad track,
waiting for the choo-choo train to bring him back.”

I love jazz and old standards, so we often listen to that sort of music. Sometimes, we try to guess which instruments are playing. Actually, we went to a short jazz concert this summer that was part of a children's concert series. T is much more interested in that sort of thing than B is. I usually have to bring coloring books for B.

They discovered a box of kids' books, since we still haven't completely unpacked. B tried to read, “Dinosaur Roar!” to T. Then, he looked at the “Make It” book that was previously mentioned. He has plans to make a skull, but he's having a hard time finding his scissors. He uses them so much that I'm always surprised that he can't find them.

After finding the scissors, B set to work to try to make a 3D paper skull. He tried in the past but didn't finish it. T tried the skull but then gave up and worked on paper airplanes instead. T's a perfectionist, however, so he sat with a paper airplane book and complained that his airplane didn't “look right”. In the end, he made a crumpled looking traditional paper airplane but was very pleased to find that he could do a “loop uh loop” with it. So it all ended well.

We then sat and read some books together. I read part of the RS4K Bio I chapter on how protists eat. We had read this about a month ago, but B wanted me to read it again. We looked at the paramecium, which is one of his favorites. He said, “That's the food vacuole.” “How do you know that's what it's called?”, I asked. I don't think he would remember it from the one time I read it last month (or maybe he would, I don't know). He proudly said, “I read it! See! I can read!”

It's funny to me that he can read big words when they relate to something he's interested in, but if I asked him to read a page in a picture book, he'd stumble over words like “was”; he gets tired and frustrated. He simply doesn't have the repetition down to make it easier for him. If I catch him off-guard and ask, "What does that word say?" and it relates to science, he can often read it effortlessly. I'm considering asking him if he'd be open to doing (gasp) flashcards of common words. I never ever thought I'd use flashcards, but if he's open to it, it might help him so that he doesn't have to sound out every word he sees. I thought it might boost his confidence a bit too. We'll see what he says.

So we read the protist chapter, with B recalling how the paramecium digests. Then, we read about amebas, podophyra and didinium. T sat next to us, warbling about how the cell would eat another cell and split into two, followed by, “I saw that on the Zula Katrol!!” The Zula Patrol is a cute, simple science cartoon on PBS that they love. B was very interested in the didinium, because T's nickname for him is “Didi”. He decided that he liked Didinium and we had to find images of it on the Internet. I must admit that the microscopic images of Didinium and the poor paramecium (its prey) were very cool. We talked about what “predatory” meant.

We then read T's choice, “I love trains!” by Philemon Sturges. Both kids read some of the words, with T reciting from memory. B's next choice was “The DK Dinosaur Encyclopedia”. We only read a few pages, because T was getting restless. We read about sauropods and then T Rex. B is vegetarian and normally he gets annoyed by the carnivorous animals but he's been warming up to T Rex. We talked about how scientists can't agree if T Rex hunted or scavenged. T Rex apparently had 57 teeth! B said, “I only have 12 teeth up top. How much are two 12s?” “24”, I replied. We worked out that T Rex had almost twice as many teeth as a grown human. There was a funny moment when he pointed to the drawing of T Rex standing over a disgusting looking carcass and said, “That's disgusting!” “What is?”, I asked, wondering which gruesome detail he was referring to. B replied, “Look! He's standing in it! Ugh.”

T's next choice was “The Night Pirates” by Peter Harris. If you have a little girl, you might particularly appreciate this picture book. Here is an excerpt:
“Pirates!
Rough, tough little girl pirates.
With their own pirate ship.
...
But what about Tom?
Could he join the crew?
'Please let me aboard!
Can I come too?'
And did the girl captain say,
'Certainly not!
You're only a boy!'
Oh no, not at all!
Instead she roared,
'Welcome Aboard!'”

B's next choice was a human body encyclopedia from SIL. It's a cartoon book designed for small children, so it's not as detailed as his DK book. But it has lots of flaps with interesting trivia, which makes it fun in a different kind of way altogether. We read lots of interesting little bits of information about joints, reflexes (what are they and where do they come from?), ligaments, capillaries, and the brain. The brain is a B favorite. We learned that brain cells are called 'neurons'. We also learned a bit about how muscles work and all three of us identified our biceps and triceps when the book pointed them out.

At this point, I was a bit tired. I decided to iron and get ready. The kids started a human body puzzle but abandoned it at some point. Tired of jazz, I put on the classical mix channel. At one point, Khachaturian's Sabre Dance came on. If you've watched Bugs Bunny, you'd know this piece. It's always the manic chase song. One day as I was returning from an errand, I discovered that dh put this piece on and led the kids through the house in crazy running style. He'd die if he knew I just wrote that. So the kids came out of their room and did a mini-run to the song, with B doing what looked like a 6 year old's impression of the stereotypical Russian dancing you see in ballet.

They ate while I showered. Then, they showered and got ready. It was 11:15. I put on the Magic SchoolBus for them and now they're watching some cartoon about monster trucks.

I'm posting this now, because it got kind of long. There will be a part two later in the day. The big activity in part two is B's art class. I have a doctor's appt so dh will be taking both kids. I had a fun downtown trip planned around his art class before I made this appt. I'll probably take them downtown tomorrow to make up for it. If I do, I'll post pictures.

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This morning was a luxuriously lazy Monday morning. The kids played for several hours this morning while I puttered around and did stuff. I'm not sure what they were doing the whole time. But I know that at various points, they pretended to drive invisible cars, they turned a bedroom into “B's house”, they played trains and they started a puzzle. Later, while B listened to more Henry Huggins on tape, I read some books to T. We read “The Caboose Who Got Loose” by Bill Peet, which is a T favorite. He wanted to read some of the words so he basically recited some for me, in addition to adding his own embellishment. Then, we read two chapters of “Henry the Green Engine” from the original Rev. Awdry's Thomas the Tank Engine books. He wanted me to read the rest of the book but we really needed to get ready. I promised to read more later.

After getting ready and having lunch, we went to our chiropractor's, because she was hosting an annual “Patient Appreciation Day” to commemorate an important date in chiropractic history. Earlier in the month, the kids had created a flat paper spine from a kit she provided. She had those hanging on the wall. The kids got little baggies of jellybeans in exchange for the spine decorations. We ate some of the yummy food she put out. Then, we ran into someone that we used to have playdates with way back when B was only 2 years old! While we got caught up, her boys and my boys played in the chiropractor's toy room. They played so well and for so long that we exchanged phone numbers for a future playdate.

Our chiropractor is so good with kids. B has been interested in bones since he was 2 or 3. Our chiropractor has always let him handle the bones she has out, including a real human skull with wobbly teeth. She answers his questions. He loves going to her office. It's a way of feeding his interest. And she has a small lending library. Today, we borrowed a “Make it: Human Body” book that we had previously borrowed. We have plans to attempt the cell model in the book. I think we can do a scaled down version out of cardboard.

We left with balloons and jellybeans. T opened his jellybean bag in the car, which I wasn't expecting. I didn't want them to eat a ton of them at once, because all the sugar and food coloring at once wouldn't be so good for them. I asked him how many he ate and he replied, “One.” I told him he could have three more. B said, “Then, I can have four.” T then determined that he could only have two more. B corrected him and told him he could have three, because he had only eaten one and 1+3 is 4. Everyone seemed happy.

B suggested we go to our old favorite coffee shop afterwards, which is right down the street. While I drank coffee, the kids played with the all-in-one game set. They played their own version of Chinese Checkers and then played cards. They had an interesting “Go Fish” game going on with easier rules. If you guess what the other person is holding, that person has to put their card down and get another from the pack. I'm not sure how one wins. Then, they examined the dice and we looked at the different ways that dice can be labeled and used. They were intrigued by a die that had card suits and such printed on the sides.

By the time we got home, it was 230. I put on TV and the kids watched a new reading show called, “Super Why.”

And that's where we are right now. I started tidying up the art cabinet, which is completely trashed. I am going to try to finish that while they watch a few shows. If I do it at another time, they will be inspired to start doing art all at once and then it defeats the purpose of the tidying. Even though we've been in the apartment for a month, we still have some things in boxes, including extra art supplies. I have to get this sorted out or we're all going to be buried in paper cuttings!

Later:
Right now, dh is reading bedtime stories to them. T chose Eric Carle's "Panda Bear, Panda Bear, What do you see?" Dh and B are about half-way through Paddington Bear. That's going to be the next audio book I try to grab.

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We're having a quiet morning. B is already holed up in his room listening to Henry Huggins on tape. Earlier, he was making a "word game" that would help people make words. He had carefully drawn and cut out several letters of the alphabet before moving on. T is listening to Laurie Berkener's "Victor Vito". My kids are really early risers, btw. I'm slowly (veerrrry slowly) waking up here with a cup of hot tea. The weather's supposed to be cooler today so we need to get out somewhere. I'm not sure what we'll do yet.

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Today, we had planned to go to the train museum. T had been asking to go for months but it's been so incredibly hot and most of the train stuff is outside, so we had been delaying it. The kids were so excited to find that we were going.

Early in the morning, the kids colored a cardboard egg carton that B rescued from the recycling bin. I cut it in half for them so they could both make 'volcanoes'. Later, while we got ready, T played with his train set and B listened to the conclusion of the audio book, "A Cricket in Times Square". While I was in the bathroom, I heard B sobbing. It didn't sound like he was hurt, but he was absolutely sobbing. I could hear dh talking to him. Bewildered, I stepped out of the bathroom to see what was going on. Dh was hugging B, with tears streaming down B's face. "It's the ending of 'A Cricket in Times Square'.", said dh, "It's very sad." "What happens??", I asked. "The cricket goes back to Connecticut.", said dh. Bewildered pause on my part. "It's a very long, drawn-out good-bye.", explained dh. Poor B. I had never seen him cry over a book before. I hugged him and told him that books made me cry sometimes too. "Which ones?", he asked. I remembered how incredibly affected I was by Gabriel Garcia Marquez' "100 Years of Solitude". As it involves murder and incest, I decide not to share that one.

Everyone picked up and got ready so we went on the long drive to the big Train Museum. It was 2.5 hours in one direction. We listened to Eric Idle narrate, "Charlie and the Chocolate Factory" on the drive. I enjoyed it as much as B did. Dh and I exchanged giggles a few times. We're such kids on the inside at times.

T started getting impatient and loud as we got very close to the end of our journey. In an effort to appease him, I asked him to help me find exit 60. I showed him where the numbers were and showed how we were at 55. Before doing this, he kept insisting that if he counted to 10, for example, that it would be 10 miles and we should be there already. This seemed to keep him busy while we finished our long journey.

The Train Museum was as good as we remembered it. We had a whirlwind tour full of energy and excitement. While walking by the tracks, I recalled a train episode of "Dirty Jobs" I recently saw. "Hey B.", I said, "Those stones are called 'ballast'." "What kind of stones are they? Igneous or sedimentary?", he asked. B likes geology and we've read a fantastic "Let's Read and Find Out Science" book about it. "Granite, I guess.", replied dh. "So it's igneous.", I added. "Oh.", he said, seeming satisfied. Then, "Rrrr! I'm an airplane!", he shouted and ran excitedly down the path. Both kids were so incredibly excited. We definitely have to come back again this winter.

On the drive back, T interrupted our audio book with his own personal rendition of Ozzy Osbourne's "Crazy Train". He was loud and refused to tone it down a bit so we could still hear the audio book. Then, he promptly passed out. We put him straight to bed when we got home, which is unusual. He didn't have a good night of sleep last night, however, so that affected him. B started listening to Beverly Cleary's "Henry and the Paper Route" while dh put T to bed. Having only recently discovered full-length audio books at the library, he's really into them right now. MIL is getting him all the Roald Dahl audio books with her teacher's discount. B is going to be so excited!

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Spotlight Sept 16-22

What We Do...

I'm a SAHM to two boys, ages 6 and 3. B is 6 and T will be 4 next month. I refer to our style of homeschooling as “quasi unschooling”. I think it's unschooling, but I get a little confused by the discussions of the definition so I feel most comfortable describing us this way. We quasi unschool, mainly because my kids are very self-motivated, busy people and they resist instruction; on some days, I may only see them in passing for much of the day. They seem to thrive in this environment, particularly my oldest so this is what we do. I'm not married to the philosophy; it's more of a case of “this works for us right now”. It will be interesting to see how things evolve as time goes by. Right now, we follow up on the kids' interests, share interests, and go to interesting places. Sometimes, B takes a class in something that interests him, but as we are all introverts, we tend to be homebodies.

Our Journey to Homeschooling...

Dh and I approached the notion of homeschooling when our oldest son was a toddler. B was developing asynchronously, which means that he was advanced in some areas and behind in others. All children develop asynchronously to some extent, but this appeared to be out of the norm. At the time, we didn't feel his academic and emotional needs would be met in school. At the same time, we both thought that homeschooling was an absolutely outrageous idea. Still, I felt like my back was up against a wall just dealing with the toddler issues. I read, “Family Matters: Why Homeschooling Makes Sense” by David Guterson. It was such a convincing read that I felt much better and I was able to bring my husband on board as well. Since then, our reasons for homeschooling have broadened a great deal, with the addition of “We just enjoy it!”

I started reading about unschooling when B was a preschooler, I guess. I had my doubts at the time, but it seemed to be the only respectful way of approaching his education. Of course, he was very little; I think I was guilty of overthinking homeschooling before he was even school-aged. At any rate, here we are. It still works for us right now and we're all very happy. Even dh, who was the most suspicious of unschooling, is very supportive of what we do.

My Kids and their Interests...

B is 6. His main loves are construction, art and science. Ever since he was a toddler, he was the kind of kid that had to be making something all the time. I somewhat keep on top of his creations by using a digital camera and keeping a family webpage, in addition to labeling and saving the favorites. But at the height of his drawing phase, I had to go through about 100 drawings a week for archiving/or/recycling! It's hard to keep on top of. Right now, he's in a paper construction phase. He's made things from a paper campfire with reloadable marshmallow sticks to flat human anatomy assemblies out of construction paper and scotch tape. I have a pile that I need to go through in my room. I feel happy that he can spend hours a day doing this, alone, with no constraints; this is as important to his development, IMO, as any subject that would be taught in First Grade.

He loves any kind of science, so most of the things that would be called “academic” in our homeschooling fall into the realm of science. Since he is so hard to keep up with in science, I started buying science curriculum as a form of strewing. We read the books when he wants to, in whatever order he wants to, for as long as he wants to. I have no academic expectations or learning objectives. It's a way of feeding his interests. He is very good at letting me know when he's disinterested. Subsequently, we may not touch the curriculum books for 2 months or we may blow through chapters in one week. Last year, we used Noeo Chemistry I. This year, we're using Real Science 4 Kids Biology I, with most of his interest being focused on cells. He is also very into human anatomy right now. He doesn't really read independently (just individual words) but he pores over his DK Visual Encyclopedias on human anatomy and skeletons; he's taught me some things!

And he also loves to play, of course. He plays for most of the day. He's very introverted, like the rest of our family, so he is really happy to play at home for most of the time. Sometimes, it can be a challenge just to convince the kids to leave the house! Oh, and he also loves books. He loves being read to and he is addicted to audio books right now. As mentioned, he doesn't really read independently yet and we're not sure what he can read, due to him being a private person. He's basically been teaching himself to read, with very minimal help. And he loves geography, dinosaurs, evolution, insects, big architectural landmarks (e.g. Leaning Tower of Pisa), volcanoes...what have I left out?

T will be 4 at the end of next month, although he's been insisting he's 5 since he was 1. He's like our family entertainer. He's very charming and funny, although he is shy in groups of people. He really loves music, singing, dancing, soccer and cooking. He has a thing for musical instruments, so I keep my eye out for kids' concerts in our city. He likes to make up stories and plays; sometimes we are conscripted into his little plays. He also loves trains, books and books about trains. ;-) He is also frequently interested in what interests B. He thinks that B is the best brother a guy could have, so he follows him around for most of the day. B is usually very patient with him and the two, minus the fighting, are best friends.

Our favorite places to go are the park, the library, the Art Museum, Science Museums, the Children's Museum, the Automotive Museum (that's dh's thing, however) the zoo, our new friends' house, etc. Dh shares a lot of scientific and mechanical interests with the kids, in addition to geography. I share an interest in art, biology and geography. I run and compete in races, which unintentionally led to both kids having an interest in racing. So, sometimes, I look out for shorter races for them, while trying to make sure they don't overdo it with their young bodies.

As a family, we love to travel. We joke that dh's family has a travel gene, as they get around quite a lot. I'm American but dh is British. We feel appreciative that we have the opportunity to visit the UK every year or two. My Ils love visiting the U.S. too, so we often meet up in different places (the last place was Washington D.C.). Now that the kids are older, out of diapers and easier to take around, I would really like to travel to parts of Europe when we visit the UK. I'd like to take advantage of our homeschool lifestyle to travel at off-peak times. I see travel as being a key resource in our homeschooling lifestyle.

Where We Are...
We've been living in the suburbs, but we are building a house in a rural area very close by. We will have 4 acres in a planned neighborhood where the minimum acreage is roughly 4 acres. We'll still be 5 minutes from the highway, which puts us about 30 minutes from the county seat that we call “the city”. I'm so excited, but I'm a little nervous too.

Right now, we're living in an apartment while we build our house, which is a bit of a transition for us. When we lived in our old house, the kids would play outside in the fenced backyard by themselves for hours. Now, we no longer have that luxury so I'm trying to compensate by getting them out more. Much of our good stuff is in storage. Some previously proposed activities have to be postponed due to the mess it would make in our rented apartment, space considerations, etc. We're looking forward to the new house, where I hope to eventually have a homeschool workshop/lab/messy room in the basement and where we will immediately have use of a deep laundry room sink and counter space.

B spends a lot of time poring over his DK Eyewitness Visual Dictionary of the Human Body. I'm not sure if he's reading it or just looking at the pictures. I'm not sure what he can read, to be honest, because he's a bit secretive about it and he hates performing. All I know is that he knows a lot about the human body and he never asks me to read this book to him.

So I offered to read it to him the other day and he accepted. At his request, I read the following pages: Muscles 1, Muscles 2, Hands, Feet, Nose-Mouth-and-Throat, Urinary System, and Reproductive System. I enjoyed reading to him and chatting with him, but it's exhausting, because he understands it the first time it's read and then he wants more detail, followed by more detail, , more detail...I felt drained by the end.

Wrt muscles, the book addressed skeletal muscles, smooth muscles and cardiac muscles. In the illustration, B was convinced that the whitish looking muscles were the skeletal muscles, but all the muscles shown were skeletal. I'm not sure what the white indicates. We talked about how the smooth muscles are the ones around the organs that make them function, e.g. muscles that move food through the intestines. He wants to know if the tongue is a skeletal muscle or a smooth muscle, because it's not really near any organs, but it moves food down the throat. I have no earthly idea, but I plan on finding out. My sister is really good at this sort of thing, so I should probably call her.

In the nose-mouth-throat page, we talked about how taste buds work and how the tongue facilitates that process. He chatted about how the nose, mouth and throat are connected. He was very chatty throughout the reading of the book.

On the urinary system page, he basically showed me how the kidneys connect to the bladder; he apparently knows that the red arteries carry blood in and the blue veins take it away. He showed me the progression through the ureters (he didn't know the term) and how it goes through the uretha, etc. I admit that I really didn't know all of that; it's not anything that I've ever paid much attention to. He knew more about how kidneys worked that I did, tbh. I then had a flashback of all the anatomy art that he's done in the past month (from memory, mind you) and I realized that the stuff he's been making has been very accurate. When he made his massive paper human body, he had attached the kidneys to the bladder by strips of black paper; those strips are essentially the ureters.

He drew intestines the other day with a rectangular blob protruding from them on one side. “What's that?”, I asked him, to which he replied,”It's the organ we don't use anymore, the grass-eating organ.” “The appendix, B?”, I asked. “Yes.”, he confirmed. I thought it was cute that he drew it how he imagined it might look. Thinking back on this, I hastily turned to the digestive system page and saw what he had drawn was accurate, even down to the side of the intestines that it's on. So I asked him what that blob was and he gave me the same answer. “How do you know that's the appendix, B?”, I asked. “I don't know.”, he said, “It just looks like it should be.” Of course, right next to it is the label “appendix” so perhaps he is reading it and just not realizing that he is reading it. He knows a lot of anatomy stuff that neither dh nor I recall reading to him.

Looking at the bladder, he said, “That's a boy's bladder.” I asked him how he knew that (it did say “male bladder”) and he said, “Because it's not squished. Girls' bladders are always squished because babies grow on top of them.” Then, he said, “Oh! Now I know why there's a hole in the bottom of the pelvis! It's because the bladder lies there.” It was a very enlightening book discussion. Sometimes, I watch him playing and I feel slightly insecure, because we don't do school at home. But then a discussion like this shows me that he really has been working on something on his own and he is learning an incredible amount about what interests him.

We had a talk about where babies come from, based on our chat about the reproductive system page. I refrained from giving him the mechanical details, because he is simply not ready for it. But we talked about how conception occurs on the inside; I'm surprised he didn't ask him how sperm get from point A to point B. He was more interested in how the cells combine and how the ball of cells grows. Based on his keen interest in this, I borrowed a book from the library, “Being Born” by Sheila Kitzinger. Again, I skipped over the outward mechanical details during conception. But we read everything else to the end and we looked at all the pictures. The photography in the book by Leonard Nilson is phenomenal. Both kids enjoyed the book.

On the day that I got that book from the library, I also picked up one that I saw: the DK Eyewitness Visual Dictionary of the Skeleton. I wish I had found this book years earlier, although parts of it would have probably freaked B out. But it was the perfect B book. I think I'm going to have to buy it. It has photographs of skeletons of tons of animals: penguins, turtles, frogs, elephants....He really loved the book and he's been taking in the car. everywhere we go.

I haven't really read it to him, but I pointed a few things out. I talked about endoskeletons vs exoskeletons. He said that he would rather use the word “vertebrate” for something with an endoskeleton. He's funny like that. If I say it once, as long as it's in his area of interest, he remembers it and that's it. He excitedly pointed out that some animal at the Science Center had an “exoskeleton”. He's good with those terms now.

The book also talks about a third type of skeleton that worms have. I'm a bit lost on it. I automatically think of skeletons being crunchy things. The book defines a skeleton as simply the structure that gives an organism its shape and protects the insides. So, it argues that leaves have skeletons. I'm not really sold on that. I think it dilutes things a bit. But apparently worms have some sort of inner structure that is fluid filled and the book is calling it a skeleton. I had to throughly explain that to B, because he thought that worms had bones, basically.

At the library, T picked out a Magic Schoolbus book and B picked out a picture book about rockets. I read the rocket book to them when we got home. It had great illustrations. I asked B to help me read the last word in each sentence. I don't know why I did that; it annoyed him a little. I was struck that he read words like “built” effortlessly. He hasn't been taught phonics. He turns from instruction. He's just figured it out somehow. At the same time, I can tell that it's work for him every time he sees a word. He can read quite a lot, but he has not put the practice in that would make these words familiar each time he sees them. Therefore, he's not fluent; he has to work each word every time. I'm sure that at some point, he'll feel motivated to do it. He loves books so much.

He listened to “Henry Huggins and the Paper Route” on tape the other day. It took him 3 consecutive hours of laying in the floor to get through it. Actually, I did make him stop it for 15 minutes so we could have lunch; he complained about that. He wanted to listen to the whole thing again the next day. That's when we headed out to the library and I picked up some more audio books for him: Henry Huggins (the original) and Charlie and the Chocolate Factory. He keeps asking me to listen to them, but we've been so busy this weekend. I'm thinking about getting him his own small CD player. I could give him my old personal CD player, but it skips if you don't hold it exactly level. He needs something, but then T would probably be into it.

I meant to say that when we read the rocket picture book, T also wanted to read the words at the ends of sentences. I figured we'd humor him. Imagine my surprise when he sounded out “dahy” or “die” for the word “day”. He didn't sound any others out, but we think it's starting to click for him. The other day at the park, he was staring at a sign and he said, “That says 'exit'.” I also meant to say that my curiosity got the best of me and I had asked him to help me write some words a week ago. This was after the joking/chicken exchange. I said the words slowly and helped him sound them out. He wrote them. For “joking”, T wrote “jokk”. He wrote “ht” for “hat” and “bid” for “bed”.

I think that's everything we've done in this past week. Tomorrow, we meet up with friends for the day.

I am really enjoying doing biology with my son. It’s one of those feel-good homeschool moments when it feels so incredibly enjoyable and relaxing. I guess I feel that way, because I also like biology. I bought “Real Science 4 Kids Biology Level I” for him, because I know that he is passionate about science. He had recent interest in cells, in addition to all of his human anatomy stuff that he’s into. I made a guess that the RS4K stuff would go over really well with him, as long as we treated it like a read-aloud and as long as we did it completely on his terms. I figured we would skip around however he wanted to and we would only do it when he genuinely felt like it.

I started off reading about taxonomy. We had already spoken about the 5 kingdoms prior to getting the curriculum. I think he easily knows plants, animals and bacteria. Fungi is a hard one for him to wrap his head around. We’ve been talking about protists a lot just now so I’m thinking he might be able to keep them straight from bacteria. The kids watched a Zula Patrol episode about paramecium and amoebas so there was a general familiarity with protists and there was a keen interest in them.

He wasn’t too interested in taxonomy, rather he wanted to jump straight into cells. This is where I have to fight the urge to strictly stick to the chapter sequence; some weird schoolish part of me tries to overcome the unschooling part of me and then it’s just not fun for anyone; it just becomes tedious and stressful. So, I let it go, of course.

He was done with the reading about classification, but immediately asked me to write “This is a cell.” so he could copy it. He then sat down and drew an animal cell based on the picture in the book. I was impressed with his level of detail. All he really wants to do are cells and he’s so interested in it, which is fantastic. This is what it should be about: love of learning. If he wants me to, I’ll read whatever he wants me to read about cells. And he really wants to make one. He had borrowed a “make it” anatomy book from our chiropractor and he had his heart set on making the cell in the book. They used a lot of hard foam. I believe we can make the same 3D cell from cardboard and we have a lot of cardboard left from the move.

This morning, he asked where the new microscope slides were. I had purchased some for him, based on what he wanted. Most of them were splices of human organs. I did buy one of paramecium splitting; he really wanted that one. I sat down with the kids and showed them which setting was best to view the slides on. Most worked well at 600x but a few really needed 900x. Unfortunately, since this is a toy microscope, 900x doesn’t work so well because the magnification gets shaky; you have to sort of hold the platform in place.

I showed him that the bolded word on top of the slide’s label would indicate what he was looking at. I was given a rare glimpse into his reading ability. He was able to read “kidney, stomach, frog blood” and others. He spends a lot of time poring over his kids’ anatomy encyclopedia; now, we’re starting to think he’s actually reading some of it. I had to read “cerebellum” for him, but then he excitedly gushed that it was the part of the brain that connects to the brain stem. This is where I think he must be reading some part of the anatomy book, because I didn’t know that bit of info.

I think he would like me to buy more slides for him. They’re a bit expensive, but it’s one of those things that are worth it. We really need a real microscope at some point rather than this little toy. I didn’t want to make the expenditure without seeing how much long-term interest was there and assessing how careful they would be. I think we’re ready for a real microscope, to be honest. The kid in me would really like a real microscope for my own pleasure; I spent hours with my toy microscope when I was a kid.

I think he was the most excited at the paramecium slide, especially as they were splitting. I had been a bit disappointed with it, because I couldn’t see all the inner parts or the cilia. He was still happy. We pulled out the RS4K text and flipped to the chapter on protists. I read about how paramecium catch food and digest it. He just soaked it up like a sponge. He also thought that paramecium were funny. I still wish we could see more; I’ll have to see if I can find a magnified picture on the Internet. We can only see a dark circle, which I guess is the nucleus. According to the RS4K book, all cells have a nucleus except for bacteria (prokaryotic cells).

Anyway, it was just one of those feel-good homeschooling moments when the parent and child are really sharing something that they both enjoy. I feel this way when the three of us go to art museum too. I think dh feels this way whenever they talk about machines or one of the other sciences. I can’t believe dh hates biology. He is really enthusiastic about physics, chemistry and things like that, but he finds biology to be incredibly tedious. I’m the opposite; biology is the only kind of science that I’ve ever really loved. I could learn about this stuff with B all day.

I know there have been posts on the boards about people feeling like their interactions with their child are incredibly monotonous. I wonder if they’ll change their mind as their child grows older or when they find a shared interest. I could never sit in the floor and play cars or something; that is tedious to me and I do not consider myself to be a child playmate. But I absolutely love talking to my kids…I love these conversations we have when they teach me things and I teach them things and we learn stuff together. I really enjoy their companionship. I love the visits to the coffee shop, especially if I can have 1:1 time with either child. I love the simple conversations, the intellectual conversations, the moments of mutual silence when we’re just being. I love traveling with them. I love when we teach each other. I think I just love the companionship and getting to know them as people. I hope they get to know me as a person too. I feel like I’m just now getting to know my own mother as a person outside of the mother role; I wish I had made this discovery sooner.